Dress codes are literally one of the stupidest things I have ever heard of. Who has the right to tell people what they are allowed to wear. Another thing I hate is when people will say oh well she needs to respect herself more. Like, "I am so sorry that you think if someone doesn't dress how you think is "conservative" that means they don't respect themselves." And then I would add something like, "You must be really insecure to care so much about other people's outfits."
Another thing is that women (and men) should not have to wear a certain type of clothes to stop from being looked at and feeling uncomfortable because of disgusting perverts! Sadly, this is how it is right now. If I want to go out in booty shorts and a crop top, I should be able to without getting any looks from anyone that make me feel awkward and insecure. Whether the looks are from men and women being innapropriate or judge mental. Clothes are a way to express ourselves. Clothes are like music. They show a lot about us. Everyone's tastes are so different so how is judging even possible! It just does not make any sense!
WOMEN DO NOT DRESS FOR MEN... and vice verse of course. There is a quote by Betsey Johnson that says, " If women dressed for they would just walk around naked!" Or something like that. This is true. Women do not dress for men. I cannot stress this enough. Tavi Gevinson (LOVE HER) said in one of her interviews how she met a boy in school that would almost get mad that she did not care what he thought about her outifts(I have 100% mentioned this before... sorry not sorry:)). This is different than meeting someone that you love and have a connection with and they make you want to be better for yourself. Like being with them makes you want to care for yourself more. This might make you want to start dressing better or whatever. This is a completely other thing because you are doing this for yourself.
Make picking out your outfits fun! Do not think about anyone else while staring into your closet in the morning! YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL THING THAT DESERVES BEAUTIFUL CLOTHES. Wear what makes you happy! And if anyone ever says anything negative to you about your clothes, give them a bitch face (thank you Rookie Magazine for teaching me how to do this) and walk away LIKE A CHAMP. EVEN DO A FIST PUMP WHILE WALKING AWAY LIKE IN THE BREAKFAST CLUB.
-M
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